Ways to Avoid Sex in Your Relationship

Having sex has it's consequences. I'm not preaching whether it's right or wrong. Or whether you should, or shouldn't have it. That's up to you. This is for those who do not want to engage in sex. Whether that's teens who are too young, or women who rather not, or the reasoning is for religious beliefs. Sometimes it's not even about not having sex eventually. Sometimes if it happens too fast, then there's a chance that is what the relationship will just be about.

I actually believe it can potentially be bad to have sex too soon, if you are really serious about your partner. I can't say that is for certain. I know that doesn't sound like a real manly thing to say either. Everyone wants sex, or likes it. Women do, obviously guys do as well. Outside those physical urges we all get, sometimes it's not always the right time for sex. Being human it's not always easy to control them.

Avoid being alone during possible sexual situations. For instance if the two of you are in a house, or apartment all alone. This is a very easy way for sexual tension to increase quite fast. Especially if you two quickly get bored, then start to kiss and quickly it can engage further than that. I know the two of you need alone time, some of the time. I don't maybe you spend your alone time outside together, going for walks. Or doing things that eliminate the chance of it escalating into sex. I guess this step is pretty difficult.

Think about something that's a total turn off. If you feel the urge is really coming, think about the most unattractive thing possible. How about old grannies dancing around in a thong. You might not only burst into laughter, but you'll be totally disgusted at the same time. Hey, it's suppose to be gross, it will cool your urges.
Talk to your partner. Tell him or her about your beliefs are and what you want. If they truly care about you and want to be with you, they'd understand. Don't feel guilty, or allow them to make you feel bad for not pleasing their pleasures. You shouldn't be entitled to do something that you aren't sure or ready for. If they can't understand this, then you have to wonder if they are who you thought they were.

Avoid peer pressure from others. It's very easy for both of the couples in the relationship to feel they aren't ready, and have friends pressure them into it. I never understood this, especially for a guys sake. When other man look down at it as wimpy, or not "manly" if a guy doesn't engage in sex. To me that just tells you how insecure they are in reality. Where they have to hide that with the macho sex talk. It's extremely easy for all of us to have sex. Like that is some big mission in life. Everyone does it eventually, how else are there so many of us popping up everywhere? So ignore those people, mainly young males who try to pressure you into doing it.

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